Unanswered question

I am not able to understand from where should i start this thing.

Did anyone encounter with a situation where you have to select between whom you love the most and the other is the thing without which you can't live. You don't have an option to select both.

The pain is so unbearable that it keeps on getting worse day by day. Then who is to be blamed? The one who made the choice, the situation or the other person whom you loved?

This is the question which is still unanswered and i am not able to figure out the answer.

Zindagi ni ramat

Zindagi pan aa kevo khel rami gayi,
Bas ek saanjh ma maari aakhi zindagi badlai gayi,
Aagad vadhavama etla khovai gaya,
Ke ehsaas aj na rahyo ke nahna amuk pal tya aj rokai gaya,
Dhime dhime aagad toh vadhi gayo,
Pan khyal na aavyo ke karibi loko chutta thai gaya.

Ek saanjh ehvi aavi gayi, ke sapna joya ne zindagi badlai gayi,
Yaad kariye che toh aankho ma nami aavi jaay che.
Raah jovu chu ke kyarek tak maleh,
Paacho hun jivo ne kadach ehni saathe ramva maleh.
Afsos koi che nai ke hun aagad vadhi gayo,
Bas khali dukh che ke aaje hun eh pal jivi nathi sakto,
Bas eh maara jivan saathe rami nathi sakto.